Are promiscuous girls good for marriage?
Tuesday, July 13th, 2010 at
11:16 am
Jeamsy qυеѕtіοחеԁ:
Hi everyone mу girl supporter һаԁ a lot relationships іח tһе past, ѕһе used tο slept wіtһ a buch οf guys, ѕһе cant even count һοw many lol, аחԁ today ѕһе ѕаіԁ tһаt ѕһе Ɩіkеѕ mе аחԁ ѕһе want tο marry. Dο rесkοח tһаt tһіѕ kind οf girls аrе apposite fοr marrige. I аm јυѕt worried οf һеr sometime bесаυѕе οf һеr past.
Hi everyone mу girl supporter һаԁ a lot relationships іח tһе past, ѕһе used tο slept wіtһ a buch οf guys, ѕһе cant even count һοw many lol, аחԁ today ѕһе ѕаіԁ tһаt ѕһе Ɩіkеѕ mе аחԁ ѕһе want tο marry. Dο rесkοח tһаt tһіѕ kind οf girls аrе apposite fοr marrige. I аm јυѕt worried οf һеr sometime bесаυѕе οf һеr past.
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Talk to her about it.
Some people like to sleep around and then settle down, others want to keep at sex like a sport, e.g. open marriage.
Date for a few years a have a year-long engagement.
Odds are honest she’s a freak in the sheets, so you have to take the +’s with the -’s.
Consider moving to another city.
STD battery tests for both of you and again in six months.
Discuss birth-control options, (hopefully) she is accustom to using condoms and it’s time for that to stop.
And make sure you are very compatible otherwise.
If you have just met her or just started “dating” her… get real you’re just the flavor of the week do not get attached.
No way to tell. Give her the benefit of the doubt.
How many people have you slept with and how would you feel if you were judged not fit to marry because of that?
Sure they’re excellent for marriage. And divorce. And heartache.
A simple question, and you must answer it honestly: What do you have to offer her that these other men didn’t. (seriously you don’t get to answer, like or security. she could have gotten this from a lot of guys.
my response is, I doubt she’s the catch you want and need. I am not adage a terrible word about her, but it is a solid track record you can account for. Can she change and become a one man girl. Maybe.
Her past is just that in the past. You have a past to, none of it matters. You are who you are and she is who she is now. Look at it this way if she likes sex that much you won’t be one of those husbands on here complaining that you don’t get sex anymore..
Look there is no way for us to tell you if this girl is excellent marriage material, we don’t know her. All any of us can say is some promiscuous women want to settle down and get married and some don’t. You have to choose if you want to marry her
lucky her for having you who don’t mind with her past. How long ago is your relationship with her? Life that she has slept with many guys in the past, is she faithful to you all this time with you? Only time will tell if she is excellent for marriage. and that’s for you to find out Mind you, some marriages has a lot of downs than ups. This is unless you don’t mind to have a cheating wife as well.
You need to talk to her about this. As a woman who’s dated a lot, I can say that it’s a bit simpler to get bored and ready for the “next” guy. Commitment isnt’ something I’m used to. Then again, I didn’t sleep with a ton of guys either.
But I’ve been with my boyfriend for 8 months now and our relationship is really strong and fantastic. I know HOW different and incredible he is, because I have so many jerks/losers in my past to compare him against! I know what a diamond in the approximate I’ve found so I’m not plotting on letting him go anytime soon!
The largest question you need to answer is if she’s capable of commitment, or if she’s just looking for excitement. If it’s the latter, then maybe you must look for someone more ready for a stable relationship (aka marriage).
Excellent luck!
Give her a chance at least. And don’t be-small her because she had a promiscuous past.
two schools of thought on this:
1. you can’t make a “ho” a housewife.
2. the past is the past and you have to go past it.
now, if she is faithful now, and gives you no reason to doubt that, than you have to take her at her word. she can’t go back and change the things that she did (and i’m sure that you were no angel in some of the things that you did in your past either). you either have to trust her until she proves that she cannot be or go on to someone else. ever see the film “chasing amy”? watch that movie, it’s a really excellent example of what you describe.
Sorry but you can’t make a housewife out of a^*!
what is a lot?
if having sex for 10 years and with 4 per year is 40 people.
is this a lot?
it is not the number you sleep with that determines if you make excellent wife material.
did she have a habit of cheating on her boyfriends?
does she treat you excellent?
would she embarrass you while out with acquaintances?
don’t get fixated on her number.